Back in the day, British Telecom ran an advert with the memorable tagline: “It’s good to talk.” Bob Hoskins reminded the nation that communication is not just useful, it’s essential to being human. In many ways, that simple phrase echoes a deeper truth: we were created by God for relationship—with Him and with one another.
Over the past few years, my life has gone through a remarkable transformation. Along the way, I’ve discovered several key lessons that continue to shape my walk with Christ.
1. Thankfulness
“Give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.” (1 Thessalonians 5:18)
There were days when I prayed simply for a job—any job. Nights when I longed for even a lumpy second-hand bed. And yet, in hindsight, I see how God has provided abundantly. Today I give thanks for friends who stick closer than a brother (Proverbs 18:24), for the gift of fatherhood, and even for a co-parenting situation marked more by peace than by drama. Gratitude turns scarcity into abundance.
2. Forgiveness
“Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you.” (Ephesians 4:32)
Unforgiveness is the heaviest prison—it keeps you locked in, and you’re both the inmate and the warden. I’ve learned that no matter how “good” I might think I am, I still fall short. Mistakes have been made, words have been spoken, and none of us is without fault (Romans 3:23). But forgiveness—toward others and toward myself—has freed me to walk lighter. There’s no room for bitterness in my camp; instead, I pray for those who oppose me.
3. Positivity
“Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things.” (Philippians 4:8)
Life is hard, and I’m no stranger to overthinking. Procrastination often feels safer than bold choices. But I’ve learned that joy is not rooted in possessions or circumstances—it’s a discipline of the mind and heart. Counting blessings keeps me grounded and focused on God’s faithfulness, not on my lack.
4. Sharing
“Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing.” (1 Thessalonians 5:11)
Much of what I share is humorous or lighthearted, but it has a purpose. We are not meant to journey alone. God calls us into fellowship so that our stories—our struggles, lessons, and laughter—might encourage others.
So if you’re reading this and you’re on my friends or subscribers list, know this: I’m here to talk. I don’t pretend to have all the answers, but I’ll gladly walk beside you.
One question still shapes my perspective to this day, a question once posed to me by a wise therapist:
“Do you believe this happened to you, or do you believe this happened for you?”
Take a moment today to pause and reflect.
What are you thankful for right now? Who do you need to forgive, so that you might walk in freedom? How can you choose joy and positivity despite life’s challenges? And who in your circle needs encouragement today?
Don’t just think on these things—act on them. Open your Bible. Make that phone call. Offer that prayer. Share a word of encouragement. Remember: it’s good to talk, but it’s even better to listen to what the Lord is saying in your life.
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